What are children turning into?

Smiling..... i was in my office this morning working on syndelsmiles a man just came in and started grumbling about how rude a young boy was to him, that was how the discussion started. with all different opinions of people about children of now a days. seriously something is wrong.... below are what i picked from the controversy.

 Can you imagine that children’s behavior would become a real problem today! What has changed? Are they badly educated by their parents or are they exposed to many more difficulties resulting from the new way of life? This drastic transformation raises a lot of questions, and I think the most important question is: how should we raise our children in today’s world. I would raise my children in comparison to the way I was raised.
They taught me how to prepare many things in order to become a real woman today. They always wanted me to share my opinions. I was really involved in the family. Every Sunday, we went to church because that was the only way where we could hear something that was isolated from political and environmental pressure.

Kids today are definitely less respectful of their elders. "Proper" etiquette is no longer forced in side of homes. And the primary reason is that now a days, beating your kid is illegal. To be honest I would rather beat my kids, than to see them rude kids. Also the notion that all kids are "mentally r****ded" until 18 is declining. I can remember vividly how strict and wonderful my parent were and that is what have been helping me till now. As grown as i am i still give up my seat to older women and gentlemen in the bus which most children now cannot do.

Or is it because children nowadays are too much into this modern World and even in school they have not been teach about manners and discipline anymore seem like its been forgotten by many cause they stressed to much on the books topics they never think beyond the books and its "Parent and Teachers" blame because they are the one who should teach their child about this..... I noticed that all children has the tendency to be rude and become a spoil brat. But parents are equally responsible for their children's behavior! Moreover, parent should avoid argument in the presence of their kids the wife should be respectful of their husband just to put their kids on the proper track because they are watching. And they will definitely follow your footstep

 I don't mean abuse kids, only beat them to discipline. ( proverb 22:15) when i was 19 years old, i was more respectful and disciplined than anyone i know in this town. Why? Because when I was younger I was disciplined in such a way the world has forgotten about; being spanked. Either it was a belt, or a wooden paddle. The fact of the matter is that I grew up to be a respectful person, I was disciplined and I still love my parents. Now for all you parents who don't want to beat your kids for discipline then you need to get your head checked. Have any of you ever seen what happens when a rebellious child acts out and their parent or sibling hits them? They shut and behave. It's simple, its easy, and most of the most effective thing to do. Your children won't hate you because of it, if anything they'll love you more for it in the future because without it, well look around and smell the crap kids are doing in today's society.

Children go through stages in which they are disobedient/disrespectful/ rude. This is the time Parents should guide their children But parents these days have no patience or time for their children.Some parents are just plain lazy and couldn't care less. Children are very vulnerable....You can train them to be obedient and respectful or you can just leave them alone to pick up bad manners from their friends. And, when these children grow up and become parents themselves, they bring up their own children like their parents did. Good parenting is equally important...Don't just blame children for their bad behavior, You dont pamper them with what is not necessary because if you cant afford it any longer it will cause a huge effect.

 Well, raising a child today is much more difficult than it was in the past. Nowadays, parents are more overwhelmed about what is happening in the world. They have too much pressure that will cause them to neglect the education of their children because they become afraid of the future. However, we must not forget that children are the next generation, the hope, and the future of the world. Why should we be careless about them? Do not let the negative side of the society reflect on their faces.

Syndelsmiles.