Words for teenagers (Singlehood)

       

Good day Syndelsmiles youths. I looked around me lately, and then i noticed teenagers of these days are so eager to be in a relationship regardless of their age. So i decided to put this write-up together for your reverts.

 Single hood doesn’t have to be a time of sufferings, isolation or loneliness. It’s not a place of deficiency or lack. Single hood should be celebrated and explored – these are the years where many of us actually find out who we are torture ourselves, fall, rise and actually bring out the best in ourselves.

Do you even know who you are? Do you live out your singleness in a way that brings clarity to your purpose at all? You need time to study yourself you don’t need him/her now. Have you even experienced the values that are attached to singles?  Is your journey one of excitement, variety, and learning? It helps a lot in your academic life. Mostly for you ladies don’t be carried away with enchanted words or luxuries, stand your ground and be focused. You deserve a good one afterwards.

Here is my point; there are certain things you can do while you’re single that you can’t do as easily when you’re engaged. Having heard various experiences of people even activities like going out to dinner or hanging with friends can’t be done alone.  People always say, “Hindsight is 20/20″. Take your time do not put yourself in an unnecessary pressures.

Though it may be uneasy or hard as it is to live alone, but it helps you get to know yourself in an extreme, intense, and deeply satisfying way. It teaches us to live happily in solitude. It provides quiet to think. It allows us to become self reliant. In my conversation with a sister she said she lived alone for 5 years before she even thought of getting  married she made sure she was ready and I believe, if nothing else, that time provided her a great deal of confidence in her ability to be independent in any circumstances.

  This is your life we’re talking about. It feels so good to take a decision, like you want to be alone, you want to see a friend and hanging out all day and not be affecting anyone else’s livelihood this doesn’t seem as irresponsible. So if that is what your nature wants you are free.  You can tour as far as you wish not minding who needs your attention you learn so much about who you are in how you handle issues alone, meet new people never minding who is jealous. Without worrying of checking in, when to call, and when to be back, is quite exhilarating.

However, pay more attention to how engaged people speak to one another. Notice their non-verbal. Ask about the rhythms of their daily life. Make a mental note: marriage is not perfect, nor is it the solution to what ails you. Be happy for your engaged friends and satisfied in where you’re at today. Know that many of us stay single forever, and that’s great. Life is about community, food, faith, travel, relationships, and love. Not just marriage. 

Do the things you won’t be able to do once you are married for example, pray hard into your future, for your future partner, for your unborn kids because when you are married and start rearing babies there won’t be much time and strength to do them because as soon as you are married, your life style changes.

Be completely, utterly, wholly single for at least some years it gives you more edge over flesh because it prevents you from sex it save you from heartbreaks. stop trying to date someone constantly. Fast from the hunt, from the hope, of another person coming into your life. Sit fully into your singleness and see what you find. Hopping wildly from one relationship to the next can do you a disservice. You’re never more ripe for self-reflection than when you’re on your own — and the more you know yourself, the more likely you are to find someone who’s right for the real you.

Lastly syndelsmilers Be a good wing-woman or wing-man It’s not always about you. Sometimes your best friends need your full-on support in their pursuit of risk and romance. Finding someone to love and putting yourself out there is not easy, but with a good friend at your side who eloquently drops the high points of your resume during a conversation with an exciting suitor, it can become much less complicated so better still find a faithful friend.